Tuesday, July 10, 2007

debbie

Tom, one of my best friends, just lost his mom last week to amyloidosis. Things had been somewhat hopeful for a heart transplant and some other therapy, but unfortunately her body just couldn't hang in there quite long enough. Thankfully all the kids and Tom Sr. were there for her from Sunday/Monday (when she took a bad turn) through July 4 when she died.

Debbie was so fun; in the times I spent with her we laughed: with her - and at her - because of her youthfulness and quirkiness. Conversations ranged from serious to silly to practical to musical. She loved all of Tom's friends, and was unfailingly interested in and kind to all of us. This might seem silly, but one of the best gifts I received from her was her time: she would go shopping with me. I'm a lousy shopper, especially when it comes to clothes, and several times Debbie took me under her wing, and worked with me till we found good stuff. The things we found are still many of the mainstays in my closet.

Debbie was also a model - in a true, non-sappy sense of the word - of generosity and hospitality to me. I knew her so little in comparison with the rest of her family, but the loss for me is real, and hard. I lost a friend. How much more her family is suffering this loss... I pray God's comfort and presence to be really felt for them as they adjust to this loss. And I look forward with them, I think, to again being able to laugh with - and at - her someday. Hooray for heaven!

Friday, June 22, 2007

just in from St. Louis...

I posted a few of the updates for our recent work trip to St. Louis - you can see mine by clicking here! You can also click a link to see all the posts from the trip on the top of that page.

Monday, January 29, 2007

As the Ruin Falls

Ran across this CSL poem today, and it echoes thoughts I had in church yesterday; thoughts and wonderings about life and the whys and particularly the wherefores.

As the Ruin Falls
All this is flashy rhetoric about loving you.
I never had a selfless thought since I was born.
I am mercenary and self-seeking through and through:
I want God, you, all friends, merely to serve my turn.
Peace, re-assurance, pleasure, are the goals I seek,
I cannot crawl one inch outside my proper skin:
I talk of love --a scholar's parrot may talk Greek--
But, self-imprisoned, always end where I begin.
Only that now you have taught me (but how late) my lack.
I see the chasm. And everything you are was making
My heart into a bridge by which I might get back
From exile, and grow man. And now the bridge is breaking.
For this I bless you as the ruin falls.
The pains You give me are more precious than all other gains.
- C.S. Lewis

Saturday, January 06, 2007

Grandma socks and toe jam

Last night Jen, Mustafa, Katie and Carl came over. Ben made venison spaghetti and I cleaned! We also heated some homemade applesauce that Lisa (German lady from church) had given me, stole some salad from Katie-roommate, and had homemade bread. It was a good night of just bumming around and catching up with each other. I got to break in my Christmas wine glasses. Had hoped to break in the new corkscrew too, but everybody brought wine that had already been opened, and the sparkling grape juice (of course) did not have a cork. *sigh* ah, the tragedies of life. I was wearing sparkelly black socks Ben's Grandma had given me when I visited for Christmas and they gave me black, fuzzy toe jam! We were going to watch a movie or play games, but ended up just hanging out in the living room, eating chocolate chip cookies and being our parts in this play of life. Ahhh!

Tuesday, November 21, 2006

posts from nzdizzy

The travelogue for our New Zealand trip is at http://nzdizzy.blogspot.com, but if you want to see just the posts from my our group, the "~"s, you can click here. Just posts I made - here.

:)

Monday, August 07, 2006

low-down on Pop

low-down on Pop

So I've moved all blogs related to my dad to here - fewer ads! Happy birthday, Dad.

Thursday, July 27, 2006

Stacy says rome wrap

follow-up on Rome trip - see "Stacy says spqr" for first letter. I think I want to be her!
Friends,

My time in Rome is coming to a close. I'm more than glad that I've spent my
summer here, but I suppose it's time to go home. And I have gotten more
sleep--thanks for asking.

Though my final presentation and exam are officially *finito* (no word yet
on whether I actually passed), I will try to remember some highlights from
the last part of the program...

Ostia
....is the gleaming port city of Rome. That means they get control of all the
salt commodities and a hexagonal harbor all to themselves. Right there on
the sea (or at least where the sea used to be, so I've been told). The
remains at ancient Ostia are reminiscent of Pompei--since blocks and blocks
of city are just right there, open to tourists (and student
archaeologists)--but there's less tragedy (since there was no violent
volcanic eruption and all).

Hadrian's Villa
....is an understatement. Try "ginormous imperial amusement park." This guy
built his own lake, with his own island in the middle, with his own bridges
to destroy behind him if he wanted some alone time. Plus there's that whole
thing with the dining room under the waterfall. And a large Egyptian pool
that may or may not be symbolic of something else...

Baths
....are wonderful examples of Roman innovation in architecture. From Trajan
to Caracalla to Diocletian, the emperors knew just how to appeal to the
masses: lots of concrete. Plus water. Maybe some decorations.

Augustus and Agrippa
....built lots of cool things, but check out these special ones: We threaded
some back alleys and lined some pockets to see the remains of the horologium
(that's a sundial, by the way; below the water level these days). And then
there's this little building known as the Pantheon (which isn't little at
all; a most impressive dome!).

The Colosseum
....represents a sick and broken side of human history. Ironic, isn't it,
that this is one of the most recognizable landmarks in the world? The
building is nonetheless impressive, even beautiful.

The Vatican
....is full of secret places and guarded by very attractive men (try
searching for images of the Swiss Guard). Several trips yielded access to
the classical collections (Laocoon! Augustus from Prima Porta! an
unidentified marble bust!) and the cemetery excavations below the Basilica,
where I saw what may, according to tradition, in all likelihood, possibly be
the remnants of St. Peter (perhaps the official word is "relics") at the top
of an ancient Roman cemetery.

My sojourns into more modern art include the Galleria Borghese (I can't
decide whether I love Apollo and Daphne or Persephone and Pluto more),
Bernini's ubiquitous fountains, and chalk drawings on the sidewalk. I
suppose I can say I visited the Sistine Chapel, too, because I did, but the
most exciting thing there was the guard trying to get everyone to quiet
down...

During these last few days, we're concluding our Roman history tour with
visits to the catacombs and the excellent Museum of Roman Civilization (the
only museum without any real artifacts inside! but it houses the
gallery-size plastico model of the City). Hopefully we also get some great
farewell food.

....and much, much more!

That's all I have to say. : )

Thanks for your notes, thoughts, and prayers during my adventure. If you'd
love to hear more, let me know; in fact, one of the reasons I'm longing for
home is because I'm bursting to share.

Arrivederci,
Stacy

Wednesday, July 05, 2006

Stacy says spqr

my zweenacular friend Stacy is in doing a Latin study thing in Rome. Here's her sweet update.

Friends,

Good food, great weather, funny tan lines, and mounds of reading: what better way to spend a vacation? (Actually, this may not be a rhetorical question. I think something like "sleep" should be added to the list.)

Almost halfway through my time in Rome, I'm looking forward to a four-day weekend to rest a bit and catch up. Yes, they work us pretty hard here, between bus rides, lots of walking, sites to view, time in the libraries (did I mention mounds of reading?), and just being overwhelmed by the fabric of ancient and modern Rome. The program here emphasizes ancient Roman history and archaeology, so I get to do things every day that are completely new to my little language- and teaching-oriented brain.

So...the following list may not mean much to those who aren't history or Latin geeks, but you can sort of get a feel for the breadth of what we've done and maybe sympathize with why these last three weeks have seemed twice as long as that.

What I've Done on My Summer Vacation in Rome:
Forum Antiquarium (dead people and infamous post holes)
Tiber Island and bridges (and Cloaca Maxima...)
Forum Boarium (that's the old cattle market), including the Round Temple and Temple of Portunus
Palatine (on several levels; it boggles the mind how many layers of Rome are built here)
Capitoline (I saw the wolf! I saw the wolf!...and other stuff; what a great museum)
Top Secret Excavation of the Atrium of Vesta (shh. don't tell)
Forum of Augustus (we got to play in the Temple of Mars Ultor; special permission)
Trajan's Column (climbing to the top; special permission again)
Curia (special permission; aww, what a nice floor)
Villa Giulia (sarcophagi everywhere! and the Apollo of Veii)
Ara Pacis (we broke in illegally)
Basilica Aemilia (broke in illegally again)
Various Temples (beneath current churches)
Theaters of Pompey and Balbus
Umm...The Very Exciting and Old Ancient Walls
(and more)

Outside of Rome:
Tarquinia (tombs with incredible paintings)
Cerveteri (more tombs; cue Indiana Jones theme)
Ardea (ancient walls...again)
Lavinium (founded by Aeneas? lots of altars, anyway)
Lake Nemi (dare I say breathtaking?)
Tusculum (we lost a few people in an ancient water channel)
Veii (yeah...not much to see)
Pyrgi (nice beach)
Alba Fucens (yeah, you try being thrown cold into an archaeological site autopsy of Roman colonial ruins. see what you come up with)
Praeneste (stairs...stairs...ramp...stairs...wait! a mosaic!)
Horace's Farm (including O Fons Bandusiae [maybe; we didn't sacrifice any goats, however]) and Licenza (my love)
Scaling the side of a VERY LARGE CLIFF to be INSIDE the Aqua Claudia (low ceilings)
Pompei!!!!!!!! (on my own)

We're progressing chronologically, so if your favorite site isn't on here...just wait.

I get a little teary-eyed when I realize I can see Mt. Soracte on a clear day, I can actually find my way among the Roman and Imperial Fora, and I can make geeky jokes about Etruscan culture. (Just kidding. I can't really make jokes.)

Life outside the Academy is pretty great as well. I'm surprised at how easily I can take care of and entertain myself. Rome has some great parks and excellent vistas.

And...the World Cup is on. Boy, is it on.

Forza Italia!--et valete,
Stacy

Thursday, June 08, 2006

pfennigs

My day's off to a bad start. I just found out that pfennigs are for real. I always thought they were a made up currency from one of my favorite stories, The Ordinary Princess. Another childhood illusion dashed to bits.

I'm off to try to find something to live for...

Monday, May 08, 2006

flies & travel

This Wed. is my last class for the term, so I'm hoping things will slow down a bit after that. Not sure they will though... it seems I get myself into one thing after another! I was out at High Cliff on Friday night and Sunday, and the lake flies (I think that's what they were) were really bad in spots. When we were in the woods they weren't so bad, but on the mowed grass near the lake they were TERRIBLE - it still gives me shivers to think about it!
I really like to travel. And I like traveling with different people, although that usually really affects the kind of trip that it is. My friend Paula is 54, so when I travel with her the fun is in the conversation more than in activity. Although we did get stuck in Hurricane Jeanne in West Palm in 2004 - that was an adventure, I suppose! Missions trips and work projects - the fun is all in interacting with the work/mission group and connecting with whoever we're hoping to help. And in the sense of satisfaction of accomplishing something in the world. Camping trips of various kinds - the fun is in being with a group of people and figuring out how to live on "less" (and still eat well!), and (often) in having adventures together. With my family - the focus is on the interrelationships, with a fair bit of fishing :) and shopping :( thrown in. I do have fun on my own - really! I've had a good time traveling for work by myself, but so many things are just better when shared.

Monday, May 01, 2006

rambling

Today after work I went to a nature preserve and rambled around. I almost ran into a last-year fawn and I don't know who scared who more. I made a funny noise that I'm glad no one was around to hear, but it did make me laugh. Then I got lost. For real lost - I left the trail to investigate something (not one of my brighter moments), and I turned around to go back and the trail had moved! That wasn't fun. I did figure it out after 15 or 20 minutes. I've never been lost like that before, so the "funnest" part of my evening was probably finding the trail again. I almost kissed it!

Wednesday, October 13, 2004

unbelief & prayer

This week we read Mark 9:14-32. Neat story; we focused in on the father who wants his demon-possessed son to be healed:

21 Jesus asked the boy's father, "How long has he been like this?"
22 "From childhood," he answered. "It has often thrown him into fire or water to kill him. But if you can do anything, take pity on us and help us."
23 " 'If you can'?" said Jesus. "Everything is possible for him who believes."
24 Immediately the boy's father exclaimed, "I do believe; help me overcome my unbelief!"

We just talked about what a neat thing that was to say - "I do believe, help me overcome my unbelief!". So then we talked about unanswered prayer a bit. Below are some quotes that Mike from my church compiled & had in the prayer room one time. This is what triggered my thoughts on it.

The greatest tragedy of life is not unanswered prayer, but unoffered prayer. F.B. Meyer

From Jerry Sittsers book, When God Doesnt Answer Your Prayer
He lost his mother, wife, and daughter in an accident in 1991

When all other courses of action have been eliminated, when we stand at the edge of the abyss, when we approach God with empty hands and an aching heart then we draw close to the true heart of prayer.

The reason why we dont pray moreand probably dont see more answers to prayeris not because we dont know how to pray, but because we dont really need to pray. We are not desperate enough.

Unanswered prayer breaks us, seasons us, and refines us so that, in the end, we attain greater spiritual depth and greater spiritual power.

Strange as it may sound we need unanswered prayer.
It is Gods gift to us because it protects us from ourselves.

Lack of patience and persistence, so common in popular culture,
inhibits our growth in the art of prayer.

If answers to prayer came too easily, we would lose interest,
not only in prayer, but also in God.

We need to ask God to take this fragile, selfish, flawed self of ours
and make it more like him. God will answer that prayer.

Instead of unanswered prayer, perhaps there are only answers to
prayer that we dont want, cant foresee, and wouldnt ask for.

When we are ready to quit, God might just be warming up.

If we give God time, he usually does something bigger and better
than what we could have imagined.

Prayer ends up writing an epic, not a short story

Tuesday, October 12, 2004

disclaimer

"I'm not trying to say that I'm trying to say"
So I'm getting tired of being disclaimer queen. And trying always to explain how I'm somewhere in the middle of pretty much everything.

Thursday, October 07, 2004

money & Grandma

been thinking about attending the Blue Like Jazz conference. Torn between thinking it's probably a very selfish and expensive thing to do, and the desire to just... just go. Trying to (no really this time) figure out how to be responsible with money. Everything is so easy to justify and hard to say no to! And then I get mad at myself all over again for thinking things will make me happy.

Looking forward to visiting Grandma tomorrow. Lynnette's saying that her legs have been even worse recently. Gosh I love her. She's been so loving to me too lately; saying things that I somehow want to store up and hold onto. That she loves me. Thinks of me like a daughter. Or a friend. That she wishes I lived closer. It's just amazing to me that she really likes having me around as a companion, not just because I'm her granddaughter. I hope that I have her hope and gentleness of spirit when I'm her age. A few days ago I wrapped myself in her quilt and just bawled at the thought of losing her. Sometimes the collective loneliness and pain in the world overwhelm me when I think of how much I suffer with my little bit of it and then how much there is from people world-wide who have it much worse off than I.

Thursday, July 18, 2002

Tajikistan - Relief Trip Experience

Learning more about what CADA does

Today was the day for the relief trip for Kelley, Angela and Ping. We were picked up early in two vehicles - Eric rode with Ping and Habib and Latif, Tajiks who work for CADA, and Angela and Kelley rode in a pickup with a driver and Sobir, another Tajik employed by CADA. Sobir explained some of CADA's work to us on the way up. He said that before Ping came, CADA focused mostly on providing relief freely to anyone they could. Unfortunately, this led to people abusing the system, or becoming dependant on the aid for survival. Ping started Food for Work and Clothes for Work programs, and he's really emphasized helping needy people find ways to support themselves. Sobir described the difference animatedly and was clearly excited about the improved approach.

Our first stop was at a huge area where there were many warehouses owned by the Ministry of Health and Medicine. CADA at one time rented four warehouses here, but because of lack of donations now only rents two. There is little food stored here now - it's primarily clothing and other supplies. There were some things stored there that CADA isn't sure what to do with - oodles of beef jerky, for instance. The people who've received it don't like it and don't know how to eat it - and it's very tough for them to chew. Ping talked about how much better it generally is to receive cash donations because the cash circulates in the local economy, and CADA is able to purchase items that local people can use best.

Sewing School

Once the truck was loaded we headed off. Our first stop was to a CADA pilot project - a sewing school. CADA is helping 10 or so young women learn to sew. They find or borrow their own sewing machines and bring them to a trailer-sized room where a sewing mistress (hired by CADA) teaches them how to sew. This is giving life skills and a source of income to women who would probably otherwise be destitute. The sewing machines we saw all seemed to be hand run - either by a wheel spun on the machine itself or by pedals underneath.

We next visited a school near the sewing training room. 700 students are taught in this building. The school had put in a request to Ping for refurbishing one of the classrooms for $100. Ping was open to the idea, but wanted an itemized list of what would be purchased with that money before he committed CADA funds. On our way out we realized that the women in the training school had set up a table and food for us near the door of the school. They were carrying bits of school furniture out to burn so they could make us French Fries. Although we were on a schedule, in Tajik culture it is very rude not to sit down, eat, and talk when you are offered food. So we had a lovely mid-morning feast with the Tajik schoolmaster (who left soon after he got there to get the list for Ping). The food was very good, although we avoided the vegetables. They were presented beautifully, but fresh vegetables are a prime way for delicate American stomachs to get sick in this country!

After lingering over tea and conversation (the Tajik way - although they probably thought it was hurried!) we moved on to a second pilot project. CADA hires another instructor to teach young men to be mechanics. So far this project also is going very well. No one has told them that their coveralls have girls names on them, and that's probably a good thing! While we were there Ping checked to make sure that the mechanics master was there and that all of the boys were present to learn.

The Relief Project... a little disappointing

We then moved on to the relief project. We stopped a community center where the distribution was to take place. There were no people there, though. Kelley and Angela went to have their first encounter with a squatty-potty, while Ping made inquiries. This was a clothes-for-work distribution, where people had worked for a specified time and were now due to receive clothing in payment. (Clothes are like cash here, so this is a great opportunity for them). Only the supervisor was here, and he told Ping that he could leave all of the clothing and that he would distribute it. Ping refused, because it is important to make sure that the individuals who earn it actually earn the clothing. He was very disappointed, because he had wanted to show us a distribution, but that simply wasn't possible with the situation as it was. He said that unfortunately, this kind of behavior is quite common in this work. We were disappointed somewhat, too, but realized that this was a chance for us to see how relief really works, rather than an idealized picture.

At this point the two vehicles parted ways. Habib went with the pickup back to the CADA warehouses to put the clothes back, while Ping, Eric, Sobir, Angela and Kelley returned to Dushanbe. We found a quiet restaurant where we could drink cold juice and water and rest from the heat and light for a while.

Shopping!

We then went to a mall that carries many souvenirs and items of Tajik culture. It was fun to ramble about and learn about the various items. It was great to have Sabir along, as he could tell us which things were truly Tajik, and which were more Russian, Iranian, or even Chinese. After purchasing a few things, we headed for home.

The Team Regroups!

Friday night, we were reunited with both the Hissor and Takob teams!! It was WONDERFUL! Everyone came to the team house (where Kelley, Angela, Misty and Kjirsten stay) for osh and other good food. A CADA cook came over with wood and made the food for us in the garage! Our main concern was that the Afghanistan border had been closed and the team that had been there for the past week would not be able to return that evening. We hoped that the border would re-open on Saturday (which it did) and that the team would be able to return safely to us (they were). It was fun to hear everyone's story. People had been healthy for the most part, although Jeremy was VERY sick for a full day on Thursday. He was feeling better on Friday and he came to the team house with the rest of the group.

As stories and pictures pile in, we will be adding them to the web site. Check back soon for more updates on the past week!

Inside one of the CADA warehouses. The bags to the left are all clothing. The computers on the right are awaiting distribution.

Outside of the same warehouse

Outside of the CADA warehouse. Those are bullet marks in the wall. During the civil war, Russian soldiers would execute Tajiks here.

The blue things on the left are diapers that were donated. Tajiks don't know how to use them, so CADA is trying to use them in maternity house.

Here's stuff that IS useful - medical equipment! Old dentist chairs, exam room tables, and crutches are all extremely valuable to this work.

Sabir, one of the Tajiks who works for CADA. He speaks English very well, so he was able to answer many of Kelley's and Angela's questions.

Young women sewing as part of the pilot project. Darkening the eyebrows is a trend from Uzbekistan that Tajik women have picked up.

More women sewing. Above them hang examples of their work. Many times they make children's clothing for practice so they don't waste material.

Outside view of the room where the women are learning to sew 
Inside a Tajik school near where the women were sewing. They are trying to replace the furniture with better quality stuff.


Silk worm cocoons. The fiber they pull from these pods is the silk. The season is done for now, but they gave us these to take with us.

Inside a classroom. They've asked Ping if he will give $100 to buy new furniture for this classroom.

Strawberry soda, nan, and Iranian candy sounds like a mid-morning snack to me! Later they brought out fresh vegetables, tea, more nan, and hot fries!

The young men's mechanics training pilot. The uniforms are donated from the States, so here Ping is arranging "Amy's" uniform while "Sarah" looks on.

Budding mechanics, now all set for the picture

Angela's shadow taking a picture of a squatty potty! Why don't we have more of these in the US?

Habib (another Tajik who works for CADA) gave Angela and Kelley each a flower. This garden is outside of the Community Center.

A Dushanbe mall

In the mall - Kelley trying on a hat that would be worn by brides.

Ping and Sabir shopping for the best teacup and saucer

Osh! (yes, that's grease!) Tajike food is very good, but VERY greasy.

Building in Dushanbe. Windows need metal grates on them for security, but notice how artistic and beautiful they make them.

In the "Millenium" market. Yes, you CAN get Pepsi in Tajikistan!

Wednesday, July 17, 2002

Tajikistan - Wrapping up Kids Camp

The End of Kids Camp

Today we wrapped up the kids camp. It's actually a four-day program, but the fourth day, Friday, the kids will go to the mountains for a swimming day. Angela, Eric and Kelley will go on a one-day relief trip with Ping, and Andrew, Shannon and the Lovetts will take the kids to the mountains.

We began our time with singing. It was Andrew's first time playing guitar in front of people and he did very well. Kelley and Angela had fun leading the singing for the kids. Then we did a skit. Justin was a regular guy and Kelley and Rachel were bad guys that tried to distract him with many harmful things. Angela was a good guy who came to his rescue. The kids liked it - "I want to see it again!" I guess they're used to videos that you can rewind and watch repeatedly! Rachel followed the skit up with a talk about resisting temptation and making good choices.

Then we had time in our small groups. The small kids made salvation bracelets and then played with play-dough. We next went outside for lunch and games before heading over to the Lovett's for more trampoline jumping, cold-water dunking and movie junking!

Regroup!

Later the Hissor team (Forrest, Misty and Denny) came back for one evening, in order to give a rest to their host family (who had been graciously hosting a team of 9 teachers for the week!). It was wonderful to catch up and swap stories.

After a bit of catching up, we joined a bunch of CADA workers for an update meeting where we sang and heard them share. It was great to hear about the amazing things they're doing in many areas of the country. Prison work, water purification, teaching English, and much more. It was great to hear their stories and learn how to think about them in the future.

We wrapped up the evening with a huge meal of stuffed peppers and potatoes (excellent!) and more updates from the Hissor team.
Singing with the kids 
Andrew, Kelley, and Angela helping lead singing


Kelley and Rachel trying to keep Justin from seeing Angela

Those bad guys don't stand a chance!

Kelley and Pam, listening

Eric with his buddies Kieran and Menke

Rachel giving the lesson

Kieran as a hammock

How did Adrianne get such long arms?!

Playing "Statues"

Having fun with play dough

Play dough cosmetics

Group shot of Eric and Angela's group

Group Shot II (ok, NOW you can be goofy!)

Bubblegum, bubblegum in a dish, how many people can you cram in a Land Rover?

Kelley with her small group

Tuesday, July 16, 2002

Tajikistan - We should have been elementary school teachers

Cross Cultural Teaching Experiences

Today was HOT! Not sure how hot, but it was more humid than it's been, and it was quite toasty! The kid's camp team had another neat day with the kids. Once again, we met at a school in the morning and later in the afternoon went to the Lovett's. The kids are very fun and lively, but they're also well behaved. Several of us who have taught in the States have remarked how nice it is to give an instruction and actually have it followed right away! Overall, this has been a stretching experience for Kelley, Eric and Angela as none of us have much experience working with small kids. Situations frequently arise where more experience in this area would come in handy, but we know that your thoughts and the care of our father are helping us make decisions and do our best.

The kids are trying to teach us to count - in German and in Tajik! German is the native language of several families represented in our camp. It's very fun to have them patiently repeat numbers that are so easy to them and that trip us up so easily!! They want us to get those from 1-10 so they can move on to the teens, but so far we haven't been terribly successful!

At the school where we're meeting, a Tajik woman has a bunch of kids that she watches. They like to gather around and watch us when we come out to the playground. Today Angela was taking photos with a digital camera. She took a picture of several of the kids, and then showed them the photo on the camera screen. They thought it was so funny to see themselves right away like that that they laughed out loud!

Shannon spent the day at an Afghan school - we'll get more updates out here for her when we know more!

Making Lesson Plans

After the kids left, Eric spent some time searching the internet for a song we want for a skit tomorrow. Angela and Kelley worked with Andrew on pulling together music for tomorrow. The couple that's been doing music for the morning music time in the camp can't make it tomorrow, so Andrew said he'd play guitar if someone else would lead. We're going to see if we can add some "soul" to a rendition of "I Have Decided", but we're not sure how that will be received! Hopefully the kids will like it and get into it!

Angela and Kelley's electricity was restored during the day today, so for supper they invited everybody else over for dinner. They made an American-Italian meal Tajikistan style! Pasta with tomato sauce from Iran (very acidic!), salad with vegetables soaked in iodine to kill bacteria, garlic bread from nan made without a broiler or a garlic press and juice in boxes! Eric, Ping, Johannes, Rachel and Justin showed up and stayed to watch _The Princess Bride_. No one quite made it through the whole movie - Kelley and Eric fell asleep! But they said they liked the food, so the evening wasn't a waste!

Friday will be a differently-scheduled day, where the kids will be taken to the mountains for swimming. Eric, Angela and Kelley (Shannon and Andrew will be here the entire summer, so they don't need this opportunity right now) will be heading off on a different adventure, so it will be left to the Lovett's and the other volunteers to run the show that day. (Think of them!)

Eric, Angela and Kelley will be taking a day-long relief trip with Ping. We're really excited about this opportunity to see up close a different aspect of CADA's (and our dad's) work in the country.

Good News!

We heard today that the team going into Afghanistan made it safely over the border yesterday. This is not a small thing, so we are very grateful. Apparently getting into the country means an hour wait at each border and even then entrance is by no means a guaranteed thing.

That's all for now, folks! "Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as you were forgiven... live a life of love!"
Tajik kids and their caretaker
Tajik girls
Eric with some of his kids
Ki Ann thinking
Kelley with some of her kids
More kids in the playground
Kids in the school playground. Their heads are shaved when they have lice.
View from the school roof
Hydration is a good thing! Eric and Jenny. You can see our guard in the background.

Monday, July 15, 2002

Tajikistan - Going Our Separate Ways

The Team Splits Up

Today was our first day of being split into smaller groups. Because the internet is not available to those who will be going to Afghanistan, Hissor or Takob, updates and photos from those teams won't be available until the team members return. The Kids Camp folks are based in Dushanbe, so that's what these updates will focus on for now.

Kelley, Shannon, Angela and Eric are the team folks on the kids camp project. Anna, a girl from England who's here for two years and just came this spring is involved and Andrew, a North Carolina dude, is here for a month, so he's helping as well. The purpose of this "camp" is to help kids of international workers here in Dushanbe. The kids here haven't had an event like this put on for them before for them, so we don't have any precedents to follow (which can be good or bad!) In this case, it's fun and it sort of adds to the challenge of the project. We met with Rachel, Dave and Justin Lovett on Monday to discuss plans for today's planned activities. Rachel (Dave and Pam Lovett's' daughter) is the main coordinator for the week. Our theme for the week is "Duct Tape the Coo-coos" Ask a team member sometime to explain that one!

More on Shannon's Luggage

Shannon went to CADA during the day today to work more on tracking down her lost luggage. SHE FOUND IT!! It had been on at least three separate flights - one of them to Siberia - before arriving in Dushanbe. Thank you for your thoughts regarding her!! She was very relieved to get her clothes back.

Kid's Camp

For the camp we are meeting in a school that's not being used for the summer. We met the kids (about 22) there and got started for the day. The day included singing, a skit, a talk by Johannes, a time where the kids were divided out by age group, lunch, fun/play time, and a wrap-up meeting in small groups. Eric and Angela were in charge of the smallest kids, Kelley took one of the older girls' groups, Rachel took the other one, and Andrew took the older boys' group. It was all a lot of fun. Play/fun time was at the Lovett's, so the kids had a blast playing on the trampoline, in the pool (the water was VERY cold!), and doing a scavenger hunt. The scavenger hunt included a few team building activities including a trust fall and the knot game - everyone putting their hands in and getting tangled up, and then working to get themselves untangled. It was neat at the end of the camp time to meet many of the parents of the kids when they came to pick them up. As you probably imagine, the folks who willingly live out here long-term are interesting and come from a variety of backgrounds and countries.

We ended the day with a wrap-up meeting and a discussion of tomorrow's activities. Our skit tomorrow will be about different ways to talk to our best friend. We were exhausted at that point (how do you teachers do this every day??), so we had about an hour and half to rest and take it easy. Kelley, Shannon, Angela, Eric, Johannes, Rachel and Justin then went to a Korean restaurant for soup and had a great time being goofy and probably making the Tajiks there really wonder about us!

Starting to Fit In

It's been really incredible to see, in a bit clearer focus, what life is like for Dave, Pam, Rachel and Justin every day. The circumstances aren't the easiest, but they still are filled with joy and love for the people around them. Dave and Pam just had 22 kids tearing about their place and were able to join in, help out, supervise, and support the efforts of Rachel and the rest of us.

The Team House, which was shared by Kelley, Angela, Misty and Kjirsten, is now just Angela and Kelley's as KJ and Misty have headed off on their projects. Our phone isn't working properly (you can hear a dial tone, but it doesn’t pick up signal as you try to dial out. And you can hear it ring but you can't answer it!), and from around 7:30 this morning to the present (10:10 PM) the electricity has been out. The house is well equipped with candles, so it seems to be a fairly frequent occurrence! We're told that that's just the way things are in Tajikistan, so we're rolling with it (but also hoping it comes on before tomorrow morning so our milk is cold!

We are grateful and blessed to be here and to be having these experiences. Thank you once again for your thoughts - we can tell that you're thinking of us and it means a lot! Until tomorrow....
Rachel leading the kids camp
...and things aren't looking good
Kelley's group is all tied up in knots!
Ah! KiAnn found something!
Now David and Adrianne from the US and Ki Bahm from Korea are in hot pursuit of the next clue!
Joanna from Germany, Ki Ann from Korea, and Menke from Holland are looking for clues!
Now Shona from England does the trust fall!!
During the scavenger at the Lovett's - a trust fall!!! Joanna from Germany is giving it a shot!
Heading to the Lovett's, packed in the back of the Land Rover. Justin is obviously excited about the situation!